Thursday, April 21, 2011

2004

December 2004

Dear ___________,

It is hard to believe that it is time to send out Christmas Greetings again. We have already received a few from the early birds who are so organized. We have had our annual Norse Club Smorgasbord with the lutefisk and lefsa; and a reception for the faculty and staff emeriti of the College of Dentistry; we have seen the Joffrey Ballet Nutcracker performance; and still to come is the department faculty Christmas brunch at the home of the Chair of the Department.

With children living on both coasts, we have traveled during this past year: In May we went to Maryland to visit the Boyds (Dawn, Bob, Heather and Andy) and to attend Heather’s graduation from Salisbury (MD) University. It was a busy but enjoyable time.

In June, we went to Lake Tahoe to see Mark and to attend a gala for the presentation of a musical which he, together with the Drama professor at the college, wrote. (Mark wrote the music and Dave wrote the book.) They called it Lysistrata’s War, based on an old Greek play.

And in July we joined Arik, Stacie, Kaelyn, and Amaya and Jene, John, BrandiAnne and J.T. at a Minnesota lake for a week. We had a nice house which held all of us; it was such fun.

My mom died in August, so there were a couple of trips to Minnesota to share her last moments and to attend her funeral. If she had lived 17 more days, she would have been 95, a long life. We think of her often.

In September we again headed for Minnesota to attend my high school class reunion – let’s see how many years was that?

On a long weekend in October, we took a Iowa Public TV bus tour to Branson – the days were filled with excursions, shows, dinners – the family friendly atmosphere as well as the patriotic emphasis was enjoyable.

And in between that we squeezed in a few trips to Decorah – Vince still teases the trout or do they tease him?

With all of you, we celebrate “the good news of great joy that will be for all the people…….a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord”.

Merry Christmas!

Vince and Verla
verlawilliams@juno.com

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

2003

Dear __________,

We are both doing just fine – what do they say, “we’re in pretty good shape considering the shape we’re in”, - you know, skin sagging around the jowls, underarm flap, bent shoulders, tummy paunch, etc. But we are still going strong, enjoying the activities in Iowa City, sometimes in Decorah. Vince still goes in as a consulting prosthodontist one day a week, but wonders if he will next year. Then there is Book Club, Norse Club, Zion Bible Class, - we both keep busy.

Our “kids” are all fine, also, and our travels this year have involved visits to all of them. In March we went out to Maryland to visit Dawn and her family. Bob had a “Change of Command” and that is always such a beautiful ceremony – dress uniforms, flags and flowers, salutes, escorts to our seats. Neat! Heather is a senior at Salisbury University but she was able to come home for that, so we got to see her, too. Dawn is home schooling Andy, but he is beginning to look forward to taking some science courses at the Community College when he turns 16 in February. Dawn is still very active at church, and is now teaching 4-year-olds at the Pre-School there.

Mark is busy at Lake Tahoe Community College – he sold his condo the first of the year and bought a house on the California side. So in September we went out to scope that out. There is little space to build new houses there, so he bought an older one which was completely re-done inside – very nice. We even got to go to a couple of rehearsals for the play he was in. It is such a beautiful area!

We visited Arik and Stacie on the same trip – they also have moved into a new house, built in a developing area a little southwest of Portland. They presented us with our 6th grandchild last January, but this was the first opportunity we had to see Amaya Grace. She is a cutie, but may have a hard time keeping up with her 3-yr old sister, Kaelyn. What a beautiful bundle of energy she is!

And every once in a while, we go to Traer to visit Jene and their kids. They also have built a new house, on a large lot just across the alley from the old one. (They even have a spare bedroom which is called “our” room.) So they still walk to school. J.T. is in all-day kindergarten this year, and keeps the teachers busy with his curiosity. BrandiAnne is a third-grader, still has her vivid imagination. Wonder if she will become a writer?

Mom is still in her apartment in Mankato, and we plan to go up there for Christmas with her (and my sisters and their families). We helped her celebrate her 94th birthday in August. We made another trip the weekend before Thanksgiving: we went to Denver for my brother’s 50th wedding anniversary. It was fun to see all of his family again – that doesn’t happen often. And we also had a good visit with Vince’s nephew, Steve and Kathy.

And so we wish for you a blessed Christmas, not only as we celebrate Christ’s First Coming, but as we look forward to His Second Coming!

Tuesday, April 19, 2011

2002

December 2002

It is difficult to tell the story of our past year, because for so many (the family extended, and all who I e-mail) already know so much of it. But for all others:

There have been mountain tops and there have been valleys.

Easter weekend we were in Portland, OR, for the wedding of Arik and Stacie – it was beautiful! And all of his siblings were there to share it, plus his cousin Steve and Kathy from Denver.

June found us on the other side of the continent, in Maryland, celebrating the graduation from high school of our oldest granddaughter, Heather. Since she was home schooled, her graduation was planned by her superintendent, principal, and teacher (her parents) – it was neat!

In September, we winged our way to Stateline, NV, (Lake Tahoe) to watch and listen to Mark as he had the lead in the musical Jekyll & Hyde. He was terrific! He said it was the most difficult role he has ever played – to watch him change from Jekyll to Hyde was most interesting.

In November we again drove to Maryland to have Thanksgiving with the Boyd family. On the day before Thanksgiving we rode with Dawn to Salisbury to pick up Heather – she attends the university there.

The summer was a different story for our youngest daughter - Jené was diagnosed with a brain tumor in June, had surgery in July, and recuperated in August and September. The tumor was benign for which we all thank and praise God. God was besieged with prayers on her behalf from friends and family all across the nation.

In December, we are not going to Florida to watch the Iowa Hawkeyes football team play in the Orange Bowl. We did go to most of the home games and watched the transformation of the team from 0 wins-8 losses in the Big 10 four years ago to 8 wins-0 losses in the Big 10 this year. Wow!

As for our daily routine, it is much the same: Vince is still prosthetics adjunct at the Dental College, I’m still involved with the Bible Study and quilt tying at Zion, and we try to get 3 or 4 walks accomplished each week (our drs. say exercise is good!).

“Don’t be afraid!” he {the angel} said. “I bring you the most joyful news ever announced, and it is for everyone! The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born tonight in Bethlehem.”

Merry Christmas!

Monday, April 18, 2011

2001

December 2001

Dear ________,

In just re-reading some past Christmas letters seeking inspiration for this one, I instead became depressed. Take the 1982 letter for example, I filled an 8 1/2 by 11 sheet solid with news, in rhyme yet. Uffda! And using that letter as an example, we have now been living a very inactive quiet life. Then why do I think I am so busy?

Anyway, this has been a good year:

Mom still lives in her apartment in Mankato, slowing down, losing her vision, celebrated her 92nd birthday. She is glad for evening meals served 5 nights a week, and morning coffee with several of the other residents.

Our "kids" are all in the same place as last year, all doing the same thing: 1) Dawn, and Bob, Heather and Andy in Maryland. We were out there for Memorial Day weekend - saw the Blue Angels perform. What precision, what noise! And the following weekend we were present at Andy's confirmation service. It was a good visit.

2) Mark living in Stateline, NV, teaching at Lake Tahoe Community College, performing some. We were out there for a short visit in August. After taking us up to Donner Pass one day and down to Yosemite National Park another, he was surprised that one of our favorite things was watching him work as musical director for the play Into the Woods being put on by a private company at the north end of the Lake.

3) On that same trip, we went up to Portland OR to see Arik, Stacie and Kaelyn. Arik still works at United Rental, Stacie part time as a dietician. We helped Kaelyn celebrate her first birthday, a few days early. She enjoyed watching the single candle burn on her cupcake, and then getting to eat the cake and get frosting all over her face. Yummmm!

4) Jene and John are still teaching at Traer, IA so we see them oftener, though maybe not as often as you would think living that close. Jene still teaches second grade, and John high school business, and helps setting up the computer for the school, and of course, head wrestling coach. BrandiAnne is in first grade and loves learning to read. J. T. goes to pre-school and day care. They are a busy family!

We've gone to Mankato a few times, and to Decorah a few times. Vince had his 50th high school class reunion in September, and had a really good turnout. The years go by! And of course, we went to the Nordic Fest in July, a Vesterheim Museum dinner at the restored Winneshiek Hotel in October, some trout fishing weekends.

Vince still plays his bass guitar in the Praise Band for the Contemporary Service on Saturday evenings at church - he really likes it!

It is so comforting to know in these times of threats and dangers, that we rest in the knowledge of eternal life through the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ our Savior, whose birth we celebrate this time of year. May that peace be yours.

Sunday, April 17, 2011

2000

December 2000

Dear ________,

Life is full of anticipation these days:
anticipation of again celebrating the birth of Jesus;
anticipation of His Coming again
anticipation of coming together of family, relatives and friends.

Our four "kids", their spouses, and our 5 grandchildren will all be with us this year for the first time in many years - how many we don't remember. Some will come earlier, some will stay later, but all will be here the week between Christmas and New Year's.

It has been an interesting year, with some traveling. We flew to Maryland to visit Dawn, Bob, Heather and Andy for Easter and my birthday. They live close enough to Chesapeake Bay so we could walk there. We met the addition to their household, Einstein, an Australian shepherd. He sort of got used to us and found out we wouldn't hurt his family. It was such fun!

In June, we flew to Lake Tahoe to visit Mark. There was a premier opening performance of a musical which Mark and a colleague at the Community College wrote. Mark composed the music, Dave wrote the book, and together they wrote the lyrics. We saw it twice, the opening night and then a gala a couple of nights later. It was such fun!

We flew to Portland in November for a weekend visit with Arik and Stacie, and to get acquainted with our newest grandchild, Kaelyn, born August 30. She is a little cutie. It was such a fun!

And of course, living quite close to Jene and John, BrandiAnne and J.T., we go to see them quite often or they come here. Among other times, we were up there for BrandiAnne's birthday in July, and again for J.T.'s in November. And that was such fun!

Vince and Arik, brother-in-law Dalen and a friend of his, went to Alaska for a week's fishing trip in July. They caught a goodly amount of salmon which we have been enjoying. They had such fun!

I spent that week with Mom. We had intended to do a little visiting friends, etc. - instead she had her pacemaker replaced and spent part ofthe week in the hospital. It was good I could be there.

Sister Sharon and I took an 8-day bus tour to Washington, D.C. and New York City in May - the tour was sponsored by the Decorah Norwegian-American Museum (Vesterheim). We saw the Viking exhibit at the Smithsonian in D.C. and the Norwegians in N.Y. exhibit at Ellis Island, noting the 175th anniversary of the first major emigration of Norwegians to America.
We had such fun!

Saturday, April 16, 2011

1999

December 13, 1999

Dear ________,

"For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior who is
Christ the Lord" - our prayer is that you have a blessed Christmas!
So many are saying the year has passed so quickly, and we agreel Our year has been filled
with happy times:

- the wedding in Morris, IL of Vince's great niece, Tara Zylla to Jim Walke - it was beautiful, and so good to see Lanita (Vince's niece) and Brian and Candice and their little girl, and of course, Steve and Kathy.
- the Johnson Cousin reunion in Decorah at Nordic Fest time. There were about 80 at the Saturday evening picnic, and nearly that many at the Sunday noon dinner. Florida and California and places in between were represented. Steve and Kathy flew in from Denver and stayed with us a night at our little "get-away" apartment.
- the 90th birthday celebration for my Mom in August. Most of her descendants were at a picnic in Mankato - 50 or so. She has 15 grandchildren, 16 great grandchildren and even now this month is awaiting the arrival of her first great great grandchild. My brother thinks it's worse that he is going to be a great grandpa. All 4 of our children with spouses and children spent the week prior to the Party with us. That was really neat! It's not often the 4 are home at the same time.
- my high school class reunion in Windom, MN - 50 years. Uffda! Some hadn't changed much,
some had. It was fun.

Our children's lives are much the same. However, Bob has a new tour of duty so Dawn and
Bob, Heather and Andy moved from Centreville VA to St. Leonard MD last spring. We were out to see them in their new house when they were barely settled. Andy went fishing with his grandpa; Heather and I did a sewing project, besides the sight seeing and visiting.

Mark has just moved from Carson City to Stateline, NV. He says he has a beautiful view of
Lake Tahoe on one side and the Carson valley on the other. He will be teaching voice, musical
theater, whatever at Lake Tahoe C.C. He and another faculty member have written a musical which they will be doing next June - we hope to go out and see it.

Arik is at the same job in Portland - he has gotten a boat and with his special friend, Stacie, has gotten into fishing. He was thrilled to have caught a 7 foot sturgeon. Wow!

Jene and John are still in Traer, IA, both teaching. BrandiAnne and IT. keep them on the move when they're not working. IT. just turned 2, andis into trucks, big, little and in between. BrandiAnne has her dolls - she loves her nativity set and talks with Mary, 'Dofus' and baby Jesus.

Vince was asked to come back as a prosthodontic consultant, so he spends Wednesday mornings at the Dental College. He enjoys the interaction with the senior students and the camaraderie with his colleagues.

I just keep busy. I continue to lead a Bible study at the church, 12 weeks in the fall session, and 12 weeks in the spring. That keeps me studying!

picture i.d.: Bob Boyd, Mark, Arik, Vince, Stacie, John Daub holding J.T.
Heather, Dawn, Andy, Verla, Jene holding BrandiAnne

Mom

Friday, April 15, 2011

1998

15 December 1998

Dear __________

Merry Christmas and all the Blessings of the Season!

The picture on the card is of Brandi Anne, Jene and Verla in Decorah in July for the Nordic Fest. We were in the Bunad (costumes) shows.

That was one of our outings. Others were:

To Chicago for an annual Dental Meeting.

To Traer, Iowa, home of Jene and John for the baptism of J.T. in April and again in July for BrandiAnne's birthday. J.T. is now one, almost walking, happy, energetic. By looking, you'd never guess he was a preemie. BrandiAnne is three, inquisitive, curious, imaginative. It's fun to watch her at play, listen to her chatter, hear her say, "I love you."

To Virginia the end of May to be with Heather on her Confirmation Day. It's always fun to visit Dawn and Bob, Heather and Andy.

And the end of October we drove to Denver. Mom rode along with us and first we visited brother Gordon and family. Saw several of his 'kids' and some of his grandchildren. Vince and I then visited his nephew, Steve and Kathy. They live in the south of Denver. It was a good visit! They visited us at our Decorah apartment Memorial Day weekend. Steve and Vince fished for trout, caught some and fried them up for a trout dinner.

We had a good time at the lake in Northern Minnesota in June when our 'kids' and grandchildren gathered for a week. It had been three years since we'd all been together (for a similar week) but this time not quite all - the Navy had other plans for Bob, a trip to Australia no less.

The kids are all in the same places doing the same thing as last year. Dawn and Bob are anticipating a move, perhaps in January - perhaps to Maryland (not very far). Jene and John remain in Traer, though Jene is teaching full time this year (second grade). Right now, John is busy coaching wrestling, as well as his teaching.

Arik is still in Portland, OR. and Mark in Carson City, NV - no major changes there.

Mom made some major changes this year: she moved to an apartment in Mankato in July. She decided to give up her car in September.

We had a fun time helping her celebrate her 89th birthday in August. We went out for lunch and by the time we finished, Mom had about 11 balloons tied to her wrists and her chair - the waitresses and waiters all entered into the festivity of the day! All 11 brought her a Sundae, topping it with every imaginable topping and then proceeded to eat it themselves. They did bring another one for her to eat!

Another fun event - niece Jessica's wedding to Brady Town in July.

And a sad event - the funeral in Decorah of dear friend, Willis.

"For unto you is born this day in the city of David, a Savior...."

Best greetings,

Thursday, April 14, 2011

1997

When Christmas morn is dawning I wish that I could be
There by the manger cradle God's Son, newborn, to see.
How kind of you, our Savior, For us to come to earth
Oh, may we not by sinning Despise your lowly birth.
We need you, 0 Lord Jesus, to be our dearest friend
Your love will guard and guide us and keep us to life's end.

--Abel Burckhardt (19th c.)


14 December 1997

Merry Christmas!

It gets harder each year to remember just exactly what happened during the year. There were some momentous times to remember, I think.

We did have a trip or two: In February a usual dental trip into Chicago, and an unusual trip (for us) for Iowa dental alumni to Scottsdale, AZ. Vince's class also made it a 40th class reunion and that was fun.

In June we went on an 18 day trip with my sister and brother-in-law (Sharon and Dalen) to the northwest. We saw, sometimes briefly, Glacier, Lake Louise, Banff, Vancouver, Victoria, Portland, Grand Teton, Yellowstone, Big Horns, Spearfish-Passion Play, Black Hills, the Corn Palace, and a few places in between. We traveled in Dalen's RV - now that's togetherness!

It was fun to see Annie (my friend of old) and Bob in July - they stopped in for an overnight - we visited and visited. Annie wanted to see the Medical Museum at the University - that was interesting and we had never seen it. We also went to the Amanas a little bit. Annie and I roomed together at LBI, & I was her maid of honor, she was my matron of honor.

Vince took early retirement the end of August - he was given a nice retirement party - such plaudits! I've been told that retirement is twice the husband at half the pay. And the very next week we drove to Centreville, VA to visit Dawn and her family. (Any time we see any of our kids is a treat - it isn't nearly often enough.) Dawn's kids are growing up, too fast we think. Heather is 13, a sweet young lady, and Andy is 9 (nearly 10). Andy is going to be a proficient fisherman - Grandpa showed him how to cast.

Since October we have been trying to be as much help as we could to Jené - she had a high risk pregnancy and had to go on bed rest. The day before Thanksgiving she gave birth to John William Daub, III. He was a preemie and had to spend about 10 days in Intensive Care, but is now home and doing well. He seems so small - how soon we forget how tiny newborns are. BrandiAnne is 2 and is getting used to have a little brother around. John got a teaching position in Traer, IA and so they moved there in August. It is different not to have them in Iowa City, but it is only an hour and half away.

Mark is still in Carson City, teaching and doing some performing. Arik is still in Portland, helping to manage a rental company. We haven't seen them this year except for a brief stop in Portland when we were on our RV trip.

Wednesday, April 13, 2011

1996

"For unto you is born this day
in the city of David
a Savior who is CHRIST the LORD!"


16 December 1996

Dear __________

We wish you God's richest blessing in this Christmas season!

There have been events and changes in our lives this year just closing. Our children are all in the same places, and we have been able to visit them briefly. We tacked March's Spring Break onto a Dental trip to San Francisco, and visited Mark in Carson City, NV and Arik in Portland, OR. We took a day trip while in Portland to visit our good friends, the Molines in Philomath, OR.

We spent some time in Centreville, VA with Dawn and her family the first part of July. We decided to watch the Fourth of July festivities of D.C. on the television, rather than brave the crowds and traffic. Dawn took us to Gettysburg, PA one day - that was an interesting historical trip. Jené, John and BrandiAnne are here in Iowa City, and we enjoy seeing them more frequently.

The first weekend in August we went back to Carson City, to see Mark as Professor Harold Hill in The Music Man. That was at an outdoor theatre on the north end of Lake Tahoe, and gets chilly (cold?) in the evenings in August. But it was a fun production to see!

I had one day home from that, when I drove to Minneapolis to accompany Mom on a flight to Denver to visit my brother and his families. (Five of his kids live in the Denver area.) His daughter and family from Texas were there and Mom thought it was a good chance to see some great grandchildren she hadn't yet seen. We had a good time visiting all of them.

My dad died in July, a couple of months shy of his 94th birthday, and a month shy of his and Mom's 69th wedding anniversary. He said several times in the last couple of years that life was getting harder to live - the body just didn't work as well. But they were able to stay on the farm until just a year ago August, when they moved to an apartment. Mom is happy to be there and keeps busy. The apartment complex offers assisted living for those who need it. Mom, however, still drives her car and maintains her independence.

Vince and I are both well. Vince is now on phased retirement, and works 3 days a week. He enjoys his Mondays and Fridays off. He is hoping to take early retirement the end of next year.

Merry Christmas!

Tuesday, April 12, 2011

1995

December 1995

Dear ones,

MERRY CHRISTMAS! Isn't it great to hear the Christmas carols on the radio, on the TV, or even in the shopping malls? It helps remind us of the miraculous birth of the Son of God which is the whole reason for the season.

This is the annual report for some of you who usually only hear from us this once-a-year:

We haven't made any really long trips. Going to San Antonio for the annual dental research meeting in March was fun. We walked the River Walk, toured the Alamo, and ate the good Mexican food. And to Centreville, VA to see Dawn and her family over New Year's was a good time. Dawn had arranged for us an invitation to a plantation for a party - that was neat. Other than that, we have mostly traveled to Decorah or to Windom.

We still have the apartment in Decorah and Vince loves to go up there and catch those trout. He also cooks them and they are really good. We went up in October to see the King and Queen of Norway - we even had dinner with them. They didn't know we were there, of course. But it was a lot of fun. The King in his greeting at the convocation at Luther College said he heard that that area of Iowa is called Little Switzerland, and that is all right - Switzerland is a beautiful country; but he thought it could also be properly called Little Norway. He received a resounding round of applause.

My parents decided it was time to get off the farm and into town. They couldn't find an apartment in Windom, so they moved to one in Jackson. They were born, raised, married in Jackson County, so it wasn't a "foreign" move. They are liking it, though Dad says it isn't home.

We had a good vacation at a resort in northern Minnesota which we have been to every now and then as our children were growing up. And they all joined us for that week in June - there were 15 of us (my sister Pam and Ryan and Joshua were with us) and such a gathering around the table that was. We took turns preparing the meals. The week was really hot so was good to be at a lake. Dalen and Sharon stopped by for a day with Dalen's boat; so a lot of water skiing was done that day. One day we rented a jet ski, and most everyone had fun on that! And of course, we had to go to Paul Bunyanland one day - the kids (big and little) had a good time, riding all the rides. It was the first time that we were all together in six years. We are told the kids want to do it again, only maybe in three years, so they must have enjoyed it, too.

BrandiAnne Daub joined our family in July being born to Jené and John. It is such fun to have them living so close - we get a chance to spoil her properly. Now we look forward to having my sisters and families and Mom and Dad visit us over Christmas!

Season's Greetings,